MITCH HARRIS: National Grief Cycle
In 1969 the Swiss Psychiatrist Elisabeth Kubler-Ross wrote a book called “On Death and Dying.” It was inspired by her work with terminally-ill patients and listed what she considered to be the five stages of grief terminally ill people, or those who had lost a loved one, go through. The grief cycle became a model to help understand the emotional roller coaster that can affect anyone who goes through a traumatic event, from redundancy to divorce.
The five stages are: denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance.
National and its media boot-lickers seem to be exhibiting classic signs of the grief cycle after losing power on election night.
Denial. This was spectacularly evident on the election night where the faithful gathered at SkyCity did not seem to realise that they didn’t actually have the numbers to govern on their own. They also did not have any potential support partners other than NZ First. Because of its born to rule, entitlement mentality National just assumed it would form the next Government because it was the biggest party. And nothing was going to stop the party.
Anger. Denial turned immediately to anger when the penny dropped that maybe they were not in control of their destiny. That is when the attack dogs were released mainly in Winston Peter’s direction with an extraordinarily nasty level of vitriol aimed at undermining the veteran politician’s integrity. This went on throughout the wait for the special votes and the coalition negotiations. Such was the level of anger that it did not seem to occur to them that it was not helping them in the negotiations.
Bargaining. This is the stage they seem to stuck at now, pleading with New Zealand to help right this terrible wrong. They are banging out the line that they will be a strong and effective opposition so hard it feels as if they are back into election campaign mode again, as if the result can somehow be overturned. As his credibility crumbles around him Steven Joyce is launching a fighting fund and keeps finding new fiscal holes. Bill English wails that all his hard work is being “frittered away”. Meanwhile Labour scored a huge win today when it revealed that limiting foreign ownership of our housing stock will not necessarily compromise our trade agreements. This was a lie perpetuated by National as part of its efforts to keep the immigration pump priming the economy.
I imagine the bargaining part of the cycle will continue for some time yet until the tragedy of opposition, the end of the deferential treatment and taxis instead of Crown Limousines puts them into full depression mode. Only after acceptance will they realise that the old guard will have to go and new tactics and policies will be needed.
I expect that it will be a long time before National reaches acceptance.
Mitch Harris hosts Night Talk, 8pm-midnight Monday to Thursday on RadioLIVE.
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